It is our duty to help those who need our help; but it cannot be our duty to make others happy, since this does not depend on us, and since it would only too often mean intruding on the privacy of those towards whom we have such amiable intentions.

I understand what you mean. Really. the truth is, this could be the hardest thing that humans can face--- you do want to love someone... but they really don;t want your love. really, what do you do, you really have to chase after them and die in battle also. she will win, you will lose....you can really reach a conclusion.